Domestic Violence is about power and control, a crime and a choice made by a person. It is a pattern of controlling behaviors that may include physical, sexual or emotional abuse. Domestic violence occurs in heterosexual and homosexual relationships. Even if your partner does not physically harm you, threats of violence may be reinforced by intimidation, blame, denial, threats, isolation and force.

If you are a victim of domestic violence it is NOT your fault. Drugs or alcohol may make the abuse worse, but they are not the cause. The abuser IS responsible.

You may be a victim if your partner:

  • Kicks, pushes, hits or slaps you
  • Makes negative remarks or calls you names
  • Threatens to kill you or someone you love
  • Harms or threatens to kill animals
  • Forces you to have sex
  • Controls all or most of the money
  • Is possessive or extremely jealous
  • Threatens to take your children
  • Doesn't allow you to see family or friends
  • Tells you what to wear

 


DOMESTIC VIOLENCE TENDS TO GET WORSE OVER TIME, IT DOES NOT GO AWAY ON IT'S OWN.

Safety Information

If you are experiencing domestic violence you should: Talk to a minister or friend, Get help from the local domestic violence center. Practice an escape plan and share it with your children.

  • SAFETY TIPSTake threats seriously
    Calls for assistance should be made from phones in a safe location
    Use a baby sitter who will keep your plans confidential
    Identify transportation options through friends, family, agencies and hotlines
    Request confidentiality when working with agencies or other organizations
    Ask a victim advocate to help with trusted friends and neighbors
    Identify someone on the job who can help you if you are in danger
    Make a list of people you can count on in case of an emergency

BE READY IF YOU DECIDE TO LEAVE Your safety bag should be left with someone you trust and should contain important items and information such as: identification, spare keys, checkbook, bank statements, birth certificates, prescriptions, financial statements, pay stubs, EBT card, Social Security cards, insurance information, money, address book and school records.

Important Numbers: Citrus County , Hernando County , Lake County , Sumter Count, Marion County

Download a DV Info Card
Download a Domestic Violence Safety Plan
Domestic Violence Power and Control Wheel
Schedule a Presentation

You Have the Right To:

Live without violence
File for a free injunction
Free safe emergency shelter
Free counseling and support services
File for custody of your children

Types of Abuse

Physical: hitting, slapping, punching or kicking

Emotional: isolation, threats, name calling, using religion or culture to control

Financial: controlling most or all of the money

Sexual: any unwanted touching or someone forces you to have sex

Elder Abuse: any intentional or neglectful act by a caregiver. More Information on Elder Abuse